Being Single or Being in Relationship is Better?

Assalamualaikum and good day to everyone :)
hoping you would be blessed everyday.
Here I'm gonna write on one of most common problem faced by youngsters and also adult nowadays. some people may just say that they do not care about this, (even though they do care) while some others really do not care and preferred to stay single.

according to my observation, most of people who are single felt lonely and they are searching for someone to be their companion or in another words, SPECIAL BEST FRIEND. while most of those who are already in relationship are hoping to be single as in their view, single people are are happier, enjoying freedom and they do not have to be committed towards their partner.

as i can see, those who are still single or never have boyfriend/girlfriend, they tend to envy those who already married or in relationship. they felt empty in their heart and tend to feel sad when they are lonely.

the above are based on my observation, so my opinion is that appreciate every moment of your life, enjoy it to your heart content, and STAY HAPPY ALWAYS. most of people misunderstanding that if they have a sad life or lonely life, they would always praying and hoping someday someone special would enter their life and make them feel happy or feel content. i want to give my view that, how can you waste your life waiting for another people to give happiness to you.?? so here, please, do not waste your life waiting, but instead create your own happiness and be independent.

for those who are single, you should enjoy your freedom first as for now you are not committed with anyone and you can do almost everything you wanted. sleep, watch dramas, be messy in your house and eat like u haven't seen food for ages without having to control anything. because once you are engaged with someone, you need to spend your time with him, on your work or education, to your family members and to your children (if you have). what i mean here, you definitely no longer have time for yourself so why don't you just try to take a positive side that being single is awesome?
you should.

also for a single people on here, whatever happened, please do not beg for any attention or love from anyone just because you feel lonely. you must know that those people can easily take advantage on you. for those who does not care, just leave them, simply because you deserve better!

and for those who are already committed, usually you would be in either situation;
1) envying those who are single and hoping to gain more freedom and feel better if you do not have to be committed, or
2) you are a very jealous type of person and also want to make your lover yours and only.

in this condition, either one, i should tell that once you are confirmed to be wife/husband to your partner, of course you have no other choice than being committed in your relationship. sometimes you would feel stressed with your partner's jealousy however, as you know, they are being like that because they love you. the best option here is to have a slow talk with your partner not trying to avoid them or what. try to settle between you guys only and DO NOT ASK FOR OTHERS OPINION especially different gender than yours because you know, that is a starting point for you to break this relationship.
and if you are the jealous type, you need to know that being possessive is cute, but only to certain extend. too much of jealousy would destroy your relationship, so CONTROL.

last but not least, going back to our issue, which one do you think? being single or being in relationship is better??
as for me, both are great. if you know how to enjoy your life, then you can be happy. just appreciate everything you have and try to have a positive mind, then hell yeah, you got this my dear !

just do whatever makes you happy :)